Here's more information. It TOTALLY has nothing to do with Pocketday. If you pull the BB out of the holster within 10-15 seconds of a message coming in, the message is opened. This has been asked many times on the boards. If you don't want the message to be automatically opened, do not take the BB out of the holster for 15 seconds after the message alert. There is no other way today to prevent a message from automatically being opened. Pocketday or not.