Originally Posted by SCODonnell
A good number of people in my organization like to put "Read" receipts on the messages. For that reason, I like to have a chance to look at who is sending the message, and sometimes the subject line, before I decide to open the message.
I've learned to be patient and wait the 20 or so seconds before taking my BB out of the holster
An alternative for you could be to disable wireless email reconcilliation. When in the Inbox, do Options > Email Reconciliation. Go through all your Message Services and set the options you want.