sorry, ive been meaning to update this post...
i havent had this issue since i updated to .75 (knock on wood)
when i did the upgrade, i did not let the desktop manager restore any of my settings, so i started with a more-or-less clean slate.
of course, then i had to reinstall and set everything up again, but it seems to have taken care of the music player problem.
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