okay here it is
http://crackberry.com/files/u3/black...re6/curve8.jpg

that picture there, where the 3rd pin from the bottom is a little bit off from it being perfectly aligned with the rest of them.....that's what i thought was the problem but it turns out you need to swing the card with the door at the same time in order for it to shut. not sure why but that's how it is and i don't care how it got in anymore, it's in thankfully