1. Go to Manage Connections > Mobile Network Options > and set data services to off. Bear in mind that all messages that are received whilst you have data services off will queue up and push as soon as you turn it back on.
2. If you use Manage Connections to turn all connections off before powering down your phone for takeoff, then yes, it is safe to use the device when advised by the crew that electronics are permitted.
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