Update and no further help needed,
I deleted the other CICAL email accounts, leaving only my main one and still had sync issues from web to phone. Since it sometimes works with my main calendar selected and I can sync a task from web to phone, then can't delete it from the phone, I think this is not a phone issue.
Any other Nice Office Free users with similar problems.
Since this is free and phone to web works perfect, I will probably keep it. But, not pay for the upgrade until I have more confidence in the program.
Phones Owned: Nokia 6200; Nokia 6126 2ea; 8700g; 8900; Carrier-Cincinnati Bell: Future Bold Owner