I've got both an 8900 and Droid and the OP is right: if you need what he uses his phone for don't get a Droid. The BB is more intuitive and easier with its menus than the Droid. I notice that he didn't touch on the one thing the Droid rocks at: browsing. Let me say this very clearly: if you don't care much about browsing on the bigger screen then you may like your BB better. I'll leave it at that.
BB 8900 Tmobile, Moto Droid Verizon