OK, I DID read all 13 pages first, but I apologise if any of this overlaps anything anyone else has said...
Calendar notifications - currently I get reminders of people's birthdays at 23:45 the day before - not enough time to buy a card! Would like an option to set this to 2/3/4 days.
Ringtones - currently I can set different tones for different methods (SMS/calls/IM/etc) and some contacts can have their own tones....but only for calls. I'd like the custom ringtone to override ALL contact methods, not just calls.
Media Player - I use the media player a great deal, and would like to see the following added to the standard player (which in general isn't bad)
- browse artwork
- artwork as wallpaper
- option to maintain backlight if "now playing screen" is selected.
- artwork to go full screen (like the video player does) after a few seconds
- sleep mode (switch off in x minutes)