Background:
No BES server
Exchange Mail
Desktop Manager (not using redirector)
Mail is forwarded to a Tmobile account so attachments can be opened on phone

Email hits my phone just fine, but anytime someone sends me an appointment, I get it on my phone, but it never reaches my outlook? I have no idea hows that's possible.

Email hits the exchange server *first* so it should show up in outlook no problem but again, only on my phone...