aiharkness : uhm.. i added both of them.. and when they're about to accept it.. which they did.. it keeps showing up as "authentication required" on their side.. and when i look on my bbm.. it doesn't show any notification that they have accepted me or something.. so we really don't know how to sort it out..

and in addition.. we all receive the "pending" sign on bmm after they have added me up.. which we clearly don't know whyyy.. -_-