you have to make sure that you made a jabber account on miranda as well so you can log onto and view the clients you can choose from...actually i believe there is a website with a bunch of jabber host servers from all around the world for ever app possible lol...i forget the site but if i find it i will post...
one little mistake in the steps and your buddy lists wont show up...so heed my word of caution...and just try everything over and over until you finally get it...

on another note i have been having a fallout with aim.jabber.anywise.com
and its pissing me off...anyone have any other good servers besides ones previously posted? and anyone know how to unsubscribe...the options arent showing up in the agents box so i cant unsubscribe