Youch, I spoke too soon. NO calendar items are syncing. I just switched to using DL and sent all of my calendars over to DL from iCal. I assumed since nothing blew up that it was working. Sorry for the ray of sunshine. I did find this on the MarketCircle forums...
Blackberry Sync and PocketMac - Topic Powered by eve community
and
iCal Snyc - Topic Powered by eve community

and someone spoke about using a script with automator to export the calendar to iCal and then sync with the 'berry.

Looks like I'm in the same boat as you.
-roccit