Mystery solved... as a prior T-mobile phone owner, it still had my phone listed as my old one. As soon as I changed the phone on my.t-mobile to the Blackberry, it changed the page and instead of saying email options, it said Blackberry options. When I went in there, it was a whole different ballgame. Set up the filter and all is well.

Thanks for your patience, and hopefully this can help a future confused person!