| | doesn't work for me
I'm having the same problem with my contacts. I don't have an option for a 1 time use. I select add contact and it goes directly to my address list. I enter the person, she gets the email and responds but nothing happens on my end. The contact remains in Pending. Consiquently she has 3 listings for my buddie name now.
Any suggestions on how to get it to work?
The other weird thing is the first time I put her in and she mine it went without a hitch. I accidently deleted it and now I'm having this problem.