theonlygurl, are you still dealing with this issue. If so, see this thread:

http://www.blackberryforums.com/gene...tml#post643885

Also, as you bought your 8100 used, it may have an IT policy installed on it. On you 8100, check options > security option > general settings, and look in the "services" in the bottom section of the screen. If it doesn't read no services, then likely there is an IT policy. If so, see

Remove IT Policy - BlackBerryFAQ

Hope this helps. If not, this will at least bump your question to the top.