Well you can't please all I guess... Seeing this is your first post (look out incoming low flying berry
) Might I suggest the following:
1. Take a deep breath
2. How about a post of issues your trying to reslove?
3. By following no.2 maybe folks in the BBF community can assist?
4. Mark Rejhon has a couple excellent post which might provide guidence right away?
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