Wirelessly posted (7100t: BlackBerry8300/4.2.2 Profile/MIDP-2.0 Configuration/CLDC-1.1 VendorID/102)
That sounds like either a BES problem or a configuration problem. If its BES youl have to go thru I.T. It could be an artifact of Desktop Manager too. I think when you install/upgrade DM you have BES or BIS options which could interfere with reconciliation.
Have you tried a hard boot? Swearing at it?
8300 Curve: viigo, gmail, google maps, way too many emails/day