Well pleased to report that I am now paired! I called Verizon tech support and the tech guy trannsfered me to BlackBerry tech support in Canada. He looked up the issue on his computer and found that the Jaguar XK series would not pair with Blackberry unless some software was downloaded. He sent the link to my BlackBerry and guided me through the download process which took just a few minutes and then we successfully paired my phone to my car, so thanks everyone for your input and help.