the desktop software is the same that the handset came with on the CD (which is equiv to 3.6 SP3, i believe). the latest, from RIM, is 3.6 SP3a (126.96.36.199). i'm not sure what the discrepancy is for the ending version numbers, but i'd never get my desktop software from the service provider ;)
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