I unchecked it on my desktop manager thing in application loader. then clicked delete, it said it updated the blackberry but the program is still on there! I reset it and everything to no avail.

Wirelessly posted (BlackBerry8830/4.2.2 Profile/MIDP-2.0 Configuration/CLDC-1.1 VendorID/104)

Does it still show under Options / Advanced Options / Applications on your device? If so, delete it from there.

done. thank you. is that the right way to unistall stuff for future reference?

I think it depends on the application. I have found that to be the easiest way for 3rd party applications.

However, if you wanted to remove, say, the phone application from your device (as some people have), I'd recommend using Application Loader for that.

Ok, gotta ask, why would you want to uninstall BBWeather, this is an awesome app.

Agreed - only the most famous freebe for a BB.