(First post... look out for the noob!!)

I am looking for an address book manager. Something I can edit my address book outside of the phone, and then load it to the phone.

In case it matters, I don't use Outlook or BES....

Do a search for a free Tool called ABC Amber BlackBerry Editor. After you do a backup of your Berry, this tool opens the backup file, and you can edit you contacts. When you get them like you want, do a selective restore to put them on your Berry.