Thanks Hdawg,
foolishly I have left the important bits out yes they are old 2000 and 2003 boxes backing on to exchange 2003 sp2
in answer to point one) I was going to put off the MSDE to SQL migration till I got these beasts in to a more stable environment
so I may seek later advice after reading various RIM KB articles on that one
Point 2) Just the MDS connection service as they currently do not require encryption or access to server-side apps (AFAIK)
as far as other components they currently have the browsing coming back through their in house proxy. so mail and and internet services as a starter
Point 3) I am going use VM Ware PtoV grab as a back up along with others too but thanks for the tip
Point 4) will have a read
just testing the waters if anyone had stumbled across any database probs during the upgrade or if the database needed special treatment during the upgrade