We have a "Blackberry Manager" installed on our (Lotus Notes) mail server, which I connect to at the office and remotely. When I am asked on these forums, and in connecting my BB Storm to the Desktop Software, whether I am connected to a Blackberry Enterprise Server, should I answer "yes"?

Can you please rephrase your question. It's difficult to understand what you are asking.

When registering for this forum, or when connecting my BB to a new computer with the BB Desktop Software, I am asked if I am using Blackberry Enterprise Server. W do not have that but we have the scaled down "Blackberry Manager" on our server which performs some of the same functions. So I was curious as to what answer to give dwhn asked this question

BlackBerry Manager is a tool used to administer a BlackBerry Enterprise Server.
If you are using BlackBerry Manager, then you have a BlackBerry Enterprise Server.

Not entirely sure what that has to do with this forum... but I hope it clarifies things for you a bit.