I was hoping for some advice from the blackberry experts... (I am an Iphone girl myself)

I have come across two options for installing spyware on a Blackberry Curve 9300 and cant find any review/feedback on the site for these. If any of you have used either or heard good/bad, please share.

I specifically need records of texts/emails/bbm/pics/vids.

Gahhh I can't post links, but the options are

eBlaster by SpectorSoft
or

BBM Spy Software bbmspy dot com

thank in advance for any feedback!

Why do you feel the need to install spyware?

I doubt that you will get much info here as in many places it is illegal to do that without permission.

What I need to do is legal - it is my minor sons' phone under my phone account. There are some things happening that don't feel right and I need to confirm or disprove my concerns.

He's smart enough to delete/hide anything I shouldn't see.

Very simple solution.

Change the device from his possession to your possession.

What you say might be true or it might not. We have no way to confirm it. Please do not take it the wrong way. You'd be surprised how many times we see something like this for very different purposes.

I like M-M's suggestion. Remove the device from the child's possession.

Well, if the person in case is minor I dont see the problem of doing it as your the responsible but in the other hand, choose to teach someone how to install a spyware on a device is like teaching how to pick through a lock and who knows if this lock is yours or not.
You can be sure none here mean to be unhelpful, its completely the way around, we are preserving not only you but other ppl that may find this forum to get this knowledge and abuse of it.
All in the name of a clean forum. Im sure this info can be found on google tho, just have to look harder.
I hope everything will turn out good for you.