My solution was to use a program named "PTFB
" ("push that freakin' button
") to have the Yes button pressed automatically when the Desktop Manager asks if I want it to connect to my BlackBerry via bluetooth.
After you install PTFB and show it the button you want it to press you may want to change it's response time from the default of slow to fast and change the default delay in pressing the button from 5 seconds to 0 seconds. After you do this, PTFB will "click" on the yes button immediately after the Desktop Manager asks you if it should connect.