Okie this might be a little different because of network service.
Click the blackberry symbol on your phone, stroll to Setup click on it, stroll to Manage click on bluetooth so its turned on!
Next go back and stroll to Set Up Bluetooth click on it.
Click on Search and this will find all people with there Bluetooth on once you have found the person you want to pair with click on it and it will show up with a code, make sure both phones have the same codes!
BINGO! THE JOB IS DONE...
I had trouble getting songs too my phone the way i found out of getting songs from some one elses bluetooth was the following!
1. Click Media
2. Click Music
3. Press the Blackberry symbol on key pad
4. Stroll down to recieve using bluetooth!
SIMPLE!!!! ( use the same method above or picures and videos!
Hope this helps you out a bit