Can anyone write out the real way to connect BB to my desktop through BT. I can pair the two together, then i install BB desktop and I set it to use Bluetooth to connect, then it can not see it. It is funny, whenever my handset is in use it turns bold under the BB's bluetooth properties. I even tried to "send file" with Windows bluetooth control panel, even though the file transfer function errors out, while it is trying, my computer's name turns bold under the bb's bluetooth setting. It seems that while there is a current data link between them they can see eachother, when I try to connect BB desktop though, the connection is not live and does not work.

A side not, can I set it up so that when i receive a call while near my computer it will pop up with caller ID?

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