Ok, running DM 4.3 with my 8130 (which runs 4.3) all from verizon...

under >options >advanced >Default Services:
I have CICAL set to
and
CMIME set to

BTW - I only run BIS

Under Calendar options it lists my 3 BIS email addresses and i have none of them checked.

When i go to place a new appointment in at the top it reads:
Send Using:
and it is not checked.

What is all this about? I never had all this on my older 8830 running versions 4.2

I am confused as to what is going on and what happens if i check something or not.

i only sync my calendar and address book via my usb cable and outlook 2002 on the desktop

any input would be helpful - thanks!

i should add that my sync'ing is working...

i just can't stand to have these options on my berry that i can't figure out! i will not sleep tonight.

It's for if you want to send your calendar appointment to someone else.

why does it only allow 1 of the 3 email addresses to send from then?

Not sure. Do you have CICAL service books for each email account? Try resending your service books.

yes, i have one for all addresses.

now i am able to select an email account but i can not get the check in the check box so nothings sends.

so your saying all this CICAL stuff is just for sending people an appointment?

Yes, and for receiving them via email, as well.