matter if your friends have a pearl or not...
But the more it happens the more it seems like thats a possible reason
I don't really know why they wouldn't receive yours though, unless they 1 - need a data plan to get mms and don't have one or 2 - other carriers causing problems..
I've never had these sort of problems before this phone... It almost makes me wonder if it's not a blackberry thing, with how wide spread it is throughout different carriers and states and everything...
I just sent myself another mms, to see if that idea would work again.. It actually retrieved it this time, automatically even! So I guess I'll have to wait and see if it works