Is there anyway to stop receiving my emails into my message folder and its respective email folder as well?

ALL messages go to the "Messages" folder. There is no way to change that. You can hide the respective mail folder if desired.

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Ok, for anyone who wants to kno I figured out how to do this. You have to unlock the other themes on your phone. Such as the Vodafone theme. There are many threads on how to do this just submit a search. Its worth the time!!