ok, so heres what happens, when i plug the pearl into my PC and open the desktop manager, the DEVICE MEMORY folder only has two folders insode it:
the PICTURES
and RINGTONES

it doesnt show the folders for VIDEO or MUSIC, so im uable to download music or movies, why is that?? thanx.

You need a micro SD memory card.

where do they sell them and how much about, plus where does it go, is it that tiny slot right above the sim card?

Pretty much any electronics store, and yes that is the location it goes. As for price $20 to $80 depending on brand and size.

There is a 2gb microSD card on amazon.com for under $20 dollars (like 18 something)

Thanks for the heads up on that!!