When i click in to configure sync i don't have an option to choose Outlook or Windows Mail to sync with. Anyone know why?

I have already did a repair install of Office and reinstalled the Desktop software.

What verion of Desktop Manager did you install?

Version 4.3 is the latest out, but some opinion is that it is still slightly buggy. You might try uninstalling 4.3 and downloading and installing 4.2, Service pack 2.

So i uninstalled 4.3 and downgraded to 4.2 SP2 and now i can't even get into the sync config. I am getting some intellisync unknown error.

I just set up auto synch with outlook through configuration under synchronize.

Well i fully uninstalled both the Desktop manager and Office and then reinstalled with 4.2 and that seemed to do it.