so today I went to send a message and the person I wanted to send the message to is gone? I was drinking last night (Go Giants!) so I'm thinking I did it. is the only way to restore to go back to another backup? or can I re-add this person?

I believe if that person deletes you from their BBM, they will disappear from your BBM as well.....

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Correct juwaack

Yea terita, I deleted Tom Brady from mine last night, too.

LOL! ok I was really hoping for help...there are like 9 people missing. I thought there was just one. I sent everyone a request again. is there some stealthy way to re-add folks without having to explain?

@juwwack I thought about that so I asked. the person said no and that I am still on their bbim list? odd.

@jsanders, you should have kept him in there so you could send nasty text messages about how poorly he played at odd hours.