So I have an 8330 connected to my companies exchange server through exchangemymail.com's service called solosync, which in a nutshell is my exchange server on their BES, works great and is an awsome service for companies with exchange servers and no BES as I refuse to continue on a WM device if I don't have to. The issue is when I connect to DM (latest version) it tells me that my bb is not associated with a BES and wants to generate a key for desktop redirector, I imagine if I click ok it will create a host of issues? or am I nuts??

If you're on a BES, then why did you install DM using the Desktop Redirector option?
You should have chosen the BlackBerry Enterprise Server option.

I did, when you install DM the only 2 options are BES/Redirector or BIS, I checked the BES/Redirector option..

I believe if you choose BES/Redirector... the next screen after that should ask if you want BES -or- Redirector.

mmm, I'll check it out right now, thanks..