so i've been scouring the web for a solution--and still to no avail:
i'm been trying to add my contacts in bb messenger for days and days now, and their names are still under the pending category. if my friends try to add me, it's the same issue. they also have said they've never even received requests from me. i'm sending these requests via PIN. or at least, i think i am.
and just now, this request bounced back to me in my email???
1. Do you have a data plan? No data plan, no BB messenger. On both sides.
2. Are you adding your friends by their Blackberry PIN number? The BB messenger is only for communication between Blackberry devices and only by using each Blackberry's unique PIN number.
3. What does the message you got back say?