ok so you know how when you delete an email it normal will prompt you with delete:
on handheld
on handheld and account (or whatever)
cancel

mine suddenly stopped asking me that. it still will prompt me before i delete but it just says:

delete
cancel

how do i get this to come back? i like being able to delete on the blackberry and my email account from my blackberry

thanks.

anybody have an answer to this?

Go to your Messages application ->option ->Email reconciliation
Then choose the email account you want to have the feature enabled, then in the "Delete On:" you can choose "Prompt" so it will ask you that questions/options you would like to see if you delete messages from that mailbox/email account next time.

youre a pro thanks man!