yes, that is where it is missing..under options/advanced/applications there is only blackberry 4.2 core applications, blackberry 4.2 system software, blackberry attachment service, browser, facebook, google talk, help, memo, password, phone, tasks...
The part where i found it was under modules (if you left click on "blackberry 4.2 system software" then it lists about 1000 diff programs assigned to the system software and only allows you to "edit permissions" none that say delete--so i dont think that is the place you are referring to above)

Follow the instructions here:

http://www.blackberryforums.com/gene...-2-device.html

My buddy just got a BB Curve on ATT and we tried to set up BB Messenger, entered PIN's and set the invites. We used his first and it said "pending" so I tried to invite him and it said "pending." I still says pending 3 hours later. What's up with that?

You don't say if you each other received the others invite? Did you accept them?

Do you each have a BlackBerry Data Plan on your BB?

Yes I have a data plan, he doesn't. We never accepted any invites it just said "pending" on the screen.

I have a blackberry curve 8300 v.4.2.2 and some friend erased my bbmessenger and I can't get it back. I've tried to find the application on the desktop manager but couldn't find it. Any suggestions