Can anyone suggest some headphones that I can use with the 8830 for me?

Also, preferably not the $40 (after shipping) stereo headphones listed on RIM's website.

Does anyone know if the "Stereo Adapter 2.5 mm to 3.5 mm with Call Answer/End Button" for $13 that VZW sells works with the 8830? I bought a cheap $4 adapter from Amazon, but that didn't work at all.

Thanks!

The adapters from Seidio work good and are not that expensive. They have three to choose from.