I downloaded an app called Make-Ur-Tones to try it out, turns out it was crap to buy that companies tones, in the desktop manager I uncheck it and it checks itself again so I cant delete it. Is there anyway to manually delete it?

Options > Advanced Options > Applications and find it in the list. Highlight it and use the Menu key to select delete. You may be asked to reboot.

Got it thank you, thought I would never get rid of it.