Couple of questions: How do I send the sae ping Message to multiple contacs, and Have a frien that when he send me ping messages font comes out in red, hoe he does that?

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It is in the blackberry messenger menu. It is cleverly named, "Ping contact"

PIN Contact, when you select the first contact and issue the command from the BB Menu, then you can add additional contacts. Also the reason it comes in red is because in your BB Messages Options where it asks if PIN Messages should be level 1 messages. I think there is some default code that turns them red. Don't know if you can change that color though.