Ok . so I called up Rogers, they confirmed they released the PIN, called back FIDO , and FIDO called up blackberry on my behalf and RIM confirms that the PIN has been released and that the phone is unlocked.
So wot the FIDO CSR said that it might be a glitch in their system and that I should try to put my SIM in another FIDO blackberry and I should get registration messages and then swap the SIM back to my phone and then they can update their systems.
Will keep updating the post..
thanks for your help.
Didn't buy the phone off ebay, I got it from a friend in my university.