SYDMAN.....I dont friggin get it...the BB froze up, I had to battery pull, rebooted and voila...the BBM Icon and app appears and everything is working.....only thing is I have to rebuild my contact list..no big deal.
Anyways thank you for assisting me with my issue..I've llearned a big lesson don't F*#@! with anything!!!
ps: my Group Calendar is still there..maybe next time I talk with a BB/RIM rep I'll ask him how..until then thanks again!!