Every since I've upgraded to 5.0 for my VZW Tour I've been unable to get my sound settings back to where when I receive an SMS in holster it vibrates FIRST and then if I don't take it out in time it will make the ring tone. I seem to only be able to either make it make the tone or not IMMEDIATELY upon receiving the SMS. I like the delay because that way in meetings I can get it out before it makes any noises. I like the noise there AFTER if vibrates because sometime I don't feel it vibrate.

Ideas?

That option looks like it's only available for the Phone.

Set Play Sound to "Out of holster" for SMS messages within the profile (assuming, of course, that you use a holster with the screen-dimming magnet).