Pending shoud be increasing and optimally atleast one forwarded number for each appointment the user creates or gets invited to, can you try this for me?
Backup the handheld.
Open Desktop Manager and go into Backup/restore, click advanced.
clear the calendar handheld database.
now close backup/restore.
Open Intellisync, Configure PIM.. set the calendar translator to MSOutlook. click ok and sync through the wire
Now co back into Configure PIM and set the calendar translator back to BlackBerry Wireless Sync
Sync one last time.
This will reset the reference ID's of the calendar and setup the wireless calendar as if from scratch.
Let me know if that works. Yes two way full wireless sync is defenitely possible, I have it working on all my employers company BES servers