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when the phone updated the software to the new 5.something, some of the menus and things changed.
At the moment i'm stuck with this silly little message tone that i'm unable to change and i can't access the tones part that allows me to put sounds on and off for e-mails etc.
there used to be a menu for those things but this is no longer there.
Any one got any ideas (probably have to be someone who has had a go on the new software)