I am not sure if this solves any of your problems. I too use POP and iNotes. We do not use the Notes client and I have 7230 on TMO.
I do not want to use web client because I do not want to wait up to 10 minutes to get a message. Ok I know that is crazy.
So you can use Domino messaging which you have to pay and I could not get it working. So what I did was make my notes ID a group. Then I changed my notes id to something else.
In that group I included my new notes id and the
. So if my email address is
I changed myname to myname2 for Notes. They I made the group myname. Now it will go to two places my notes mailbox and my BB.
Ok now for the problem. If I get a email from iNotes it does not go to my BB. Also if I send a note from iNotes it says my email address is
. This is not a problem since I try to reply with my BB or use POP thru Outlook.
I also tried creating a Domino script that send the mail to me but I loose the TO: and CC: (not sure if its both). I also have this problem with Outlook rule that forwards me the mail at one of my clients.
I hope this help someone ... also if anyone a better way, I would like to hear it.