Originally Posted by jpsilvashy
I love her dearly, but if she finds certain "things" in my blackberry, our marriage will be over. Any security measures I could take?
I have to ask if you really "love her dearly" why would you keep things from her that would make your marriage end? Easiest thing to do is not do things that would detriment your marriage. I come from a broken home and I know that people do stupid things because they are selfish and don't consider how many people the decisions they make affect. Believe me, to hide whatever it is you are hiding from your wife is the least of your problems. The true worry will be if she finds out, ends the marriage and you have to wake up the rest of your life without her there. That will truely bother you if you really love her man.