I know this is a common rant... But as anyone thought of developing a module the will alter the Vibe + Ring behavior to actually do both at the same time as opposed to Vibe then Ring. Ideally it would be nice to have both. Vibe then Ring is ideal for meeting / quiet situations where you want a chance to divert the call. But I find in almost every Normal real world situation the two vibrates you get aren't enough to alert you to a call and it just leaves you with a few rings to grab it (if you can hear it ring). This is my number one complaint in moving purely to a BB and not having a phone.
Any plans from RIM? Some how I don't think this would be an easy Java hack.