When i try to add someone to the BB messenger it says email is that where i put the pin? I want to talk to people over the bb messenger. You guys post pin numbers and i just dont see where to enter that. Sorry im a noob at this stuff

Hit the menu button and it will bring up an option for add by pin.

^^yes, and,

No, if it asks for email, you put their email there. BBM will then email your friend a message to accept.

If you have the PIN, put the PIN# in the Contact's address book entry (where it says PIN). Then invite the user via the BBM.