hey guys im having problemes with my messager.when i try to add a contact or somebody try's to add me it sends it in the blackberry email.not pin?so i can't accept..lol

is there a config or something?

When you add the person click Menu and select "Request PIN"

i dont see that when im in the messanger apps i click beside the track bal and add contact the i chose the contact press it and a box apears with the message,thats it.then i see it in my pending..

what you can do is add their PIN number to your address book and then it will send the request for adding via PIN.

it is in my address book.i have there address with all there info.

do the others see the request come through at all? it will remain pending until they accept

it goes in there email.they can't accept.it only starter thios recently?cause i have contacts that are in there already..